Getting your wife or girlfriend to become a swinger is something that can be a bit of a challenge. You will find that even bringing up the idea to her may be something that can be difficult. When bringing it up you may want to be careful as it can quickly end up blowing up in your face. Mention swinging to her hypothetically or in passing and see how she responds. You can, from there, figure out how you can go about getting started.
Start Slow
It is important to start slow. You will find that whenever you try to rush her or push her too much she is not going to have a good experience. You want for her experience swinging to be one that is pleasant and not forced. Allow her to lead the way whenever you are trying to get her going in the swinging world.
Make Rules
It may help her if there are rules made. You both can start slow with a lot of rules and take the rules off as you go. Some couples will choose to have no oral or only oral starting off. Some may even not allow their partner to climax with anybody but them. These rules you can keep for as long as needed.
Respect Her
Always respect her and her wishes. No matter how good of a time you are having at a swinging club or meet if she wants to go home, then it is time to stop. You will find that when you respect her wishes over everybody else’s that she will feel a lot better about the situation.