Spicy N Sexy http://www.spicynsexy.com Sexy Swingers information Thu, 15 Sep 2011 11:30:26 +0000 en hourly 1 Knowing Who You Will Play With When Swinging http://www.spicynsexy.com/knowing-who-you-will-play-with-when-swinging http://www.spicynsexy.com/knowing-who-you-will-play-with-when-swinging#comments Sun, 12 Jun 2011 12:56:59 +0000 admin http://www.spicynsexy.com/?p=21 Knowing who you will play with when swinging is something that a lot of people prefer over swinging with a stranger. You will find that whenever you know who it is that you will be swinging with you will be able to know right off the bat if there is any chemistry there as you both have already met and know a little bit about each other.

Finding People

Go online to swinging sites and find local swingers that you can go out with. This is something that can be done regardless of what type of relationship you are looking for. Whether you want a one time thing, a relationship or just a swinging only relationship you will find that there are sites and there are people that are up for all of these things. Just make sure that you know what you want beforehand to make the process easier.

Meeting Them

Once you have decided what type of person you want and have found a few possible candidates you should meet up with them. You will find that meeting up for coffee or simply out to lunch can really help the two of you to know for sure if there is any type of connection there. It is important that you don’t try to force a connection to be there if it is not. Be honest with the person and send them on their way if there is no spark. You can almost guarantee that the sex is going to be boring if you try them out anyway.

]]> http://www.spicynsexy.com/knowing-who-you-will-play-with-when-swinging/feed 0 Getting Your Wife or Girlfriend to Become a Swinger http://www.spicynsexy.com/getting-your-wife-or-girlfriend-to-become-a-swinger http://www.spicynsexy.com/getting-your-wife-or-girlfriend-to-become-a-swinger#comments Fri, 06 May 2011 12:56:38 +0000 admin http://www.spicynsexy.com/?p=19 Getting your wife or girlfriend to become a swinger is something that can be a bit of a challenge. You will find that even bringing up the idea to her may be something that can be difficult. When bringing it up you may want to be careful as it can quickly end up blowing up in your face. Mention swinging to her hypothetically or in passing and see how she responds. You can, from there, figure out how you can go about getting started.

Start Slow

It is important to start slow. You will find that whenever you try to rush her or push her too much she is not going to have a good experience. You want for her experience swinging to be one that is pleasant and not forced. Allow her to lead the way whenever you are trying to get her going in the swinging world.

Make Rules

It may help her if there are rules made. You both can start slow with a lot of rules and take the rules off as you go. Some couples will choose to have no oral or only oral starting off. Some may even not allow their partner to climax with anybody but them. These rules you can keep for as long as needed.

Respect Her

Always respect her and her wishes. No matter how good of a time you are having at a swinging club or meet if she wants to go home, then it is time to stop. You will find that when you respect her wishes over everybody else’s that she will feel a lot better about the situation.

]]> http://www.spicynsexy.com/getting-your-wife-or-girlfriend-to-become-a-swinger/feed 0 Types of Swinger Relationships to Look For http://www.spicynsexy.com/types-of-swinger-relationships-to-look-for http://www.spicynsexy.com/types-of-swinger-relationships-to-look-for#comments Sun, 03 Apr 2011 12:56:13 +0000 admin http://www.spicynsexy.com/?p=17 There are a lot of different types of swinger relationships that you will need to make yourself aware of. You will find that the more that you understand about these relationships the easier it will be for you. There are two main types of relationships that you can choose from with swinger relationships. Once you understand these you will then be able to delve deeper into the specifics of them.

Serious Relationships

The serious relationships in swinging are the ones where people will be together in every sense of the word. They will often be married or at least live together. They may have rules about what peopel they swing with and what all they can and cannot do. These people will often go into swinging together. However, there are a lot of swingers that will go looking for other swingers that they can have serious relationships with.

Casual Relationships

The casual relationships can be broken up into more than one category. You will be able to find the casual relationships that consist of the people that only are together when they swing. This is because you can’t always get into meetings if you are single. These people will often just want somebody that they can always swap partners with or just a person that they can go to the club with. They will not be in a relationship outside of swinging.

The other type of casual relationship in swinging is basically like any other casual relationship. They will sleep with other people both inside and outside of swinging clubs but will be together when it is convenient for them both.

]]> http://www.spicynsexy.com/types-of-swinger-relationships-to-look-for/feed 0 Preparing Yourself for the Sexual Activities You Are Interested In http://www.spicynsexy.com/preparing-yourself-for-the-sexual-activities-you-are-interested-in http://www.spicynsexy.com/preparing-yourself-for-the-sexual-activities-you-are-interested-in#comments Wed, 09 Mar 2011 12:23:09 +0000 admin http://www.spicynsexy.com/?p=14 Regardless of what they may be, you will need to prepare yourself for the sexual activities that you are interested in. Just make sure that you understand what your interests will require from you on a physical, mental and emotional level. This is something that is going to end up allowing you to fully enjoy yourself. A person that does not fully understand what their interest is will end up more often than not regretting it.

Physical Preparation

Regardless of what you plan to do it is a good idea to do a good physical preparation for it. This means the proper grooming needs to take place. You may also want to consider doing different stretches and understanding the way that your body works so that you can take full advantage of what you are about to do to it.

Mental Preparation

Some different sexual activities will need to have a good mental preparation ahead of time. This means that you need to think about how you want it to go in your head. Try not to plan anything out too much as this could end up causing you to be disappointed with how things really go.

Emotional Preparation

For emotional preparation, this is something that will often have to do with if you have your partner involved. Things such as swinging and wife swapping will need for you to emotionally prepare yourself for what is about to happen. If you do not do this, then you could end up becoming very uncomfortable with the situation very fast.

]]> http://www.spicynsexy.com/preparing-yourself-for-the-sexual-activities-you-are-interested-in/feed 0 Willing To Explore Your Sexuality with a Swinger http://www.spicynsexy.com/willing-to-explore-your-sexuality-with-a-swinger http://www.spicynsexy.com/willing-to-explore-your-sexuality-with-a-swinger#comments Thu, 03 Feb 2011 12:22:10 +0000 admin http://www.spicynsexy.com/?p=12 If you are willing to explore your sexuality with a swinger, then you will find that there are a lot of things that you can learn for yourself. Make sure that as a person that is ready to learn new things that you take the time to think about what you want and what you would like to try. This is the best way for you to know for sure that you will have a good time and will actually be able to learn things that you never had before.

Bisexuality

A person that is looking to explore their sexuality will often toy with bisexuality. This is something that a lot of people think about and will usually end up trying whenever they are a swinger. Whenever you are thinking of broadening your sexual horizons you will find that doing so with a swinger is a great way for you to learn whether or not bisexuality is something that is for you. Bisexuality is common among swingers. Even if they do not participate in bisexuality regularly they will have at least explored it at some time.

Experimenting

Experimenting with a swinger does not always have to mean that you try out bisexuality. You can also try new positions and new techniques that you would have never heard of or tried before. This is a great way for you to be able to really see what all is out there sexually. The more that you experiment the better of a lover you will end up being to your future partners.

]]> http://www.spicynsexy.com/willing-to-explore-your-sexuality-with-a-swinger/feed 0 Getting Interested In the Swinger Lifestyle http://www.spicynsexy.com/getting-interested-in-the-swinger-lifestyle http://www.spicynsexy.com/getting-interested-in-the-swinger-lifestyle#comments Thu, 20 Jan 2011 20:15:19 +0000 admin http://www.spicynsexy.com/?p=9 If you are looking to get interested in the swinger lifestyle, then you will have a lot to learn. It can be difficult to simply jump into this lifestyle without learning as much about it as you can. You will find that people that are swingers will all have different stories about how they started or what got them interested. It is best if you are able to take the time to figure out what about this lifestyle interests you before you begin to take part in it.

Start Slowly

It is best for you to start slowly. You will find that you may end up hating it if you try to jump into the lifestyle headfirst. Make sure that you take the time to find a group of swingers that you trust and let them know that you are new. They will often be understanding and allow you to take your time and figure out if this is something that is for you or not.

Research

It is a good idea for you to do some research online about the swinger lifestyle. See what the local swinger scene looks like and see if there are any clubs in your area. You can then go to the club’s website (most of them have them) and see what their rules are like and what types of themes they have.

Couple

If you are in a couple and you are both interested in swinging, then you will need to figure out if you want to have rules to start with.

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